he told me that he doesnt know her very well, and she came up to him in the break room while he was on his lunch and asked him if he knew how to fix a tail light, and would he fix it for her, and he said he tried to act bothered but ended changing it for anyway. he sd she was out in the parking lot standing with him watching him change the light, but that the whole time he talked about his girlfriend (me) when she asked him what he was doing later. How should I have reacted when he told me this?
My boyfriend works with this girl who he changed a tail light on her car for. What should be my reaction?
If you believe that he only changed her taillight and talked about you then you don't have anything to worry about.Be glad that you have a man who knows his way around a car.If you feel doubtful about his story then investigate a little.It may not be anything.If you are attracted to your boyfriend, why wouldn't someone else be?The question is, do you trust how he would react in that situation?
My boyfriend works with this girl who he changed a tail light on her car for. What should be my reaction?
Oh, please... let it go.
get over it... you sound immature
Don't react at all. It sounds like he handled it properly, and was just letting you know about it. No big.
sounds like she has it bad for him, but he's not interested coz he is committed to you and your relationship... it sounds like you are a lucky lady... don't doubt him - he seems the real deal to me !
He sounds like an honest guy. I've known lots of women who ask guys at work to help them with little car things -- it doesn't necessarily mean she's hitting on him. I guess since she asked him what he was doing later -- that might mean she likes him. I think it's great he was honest with you about it. He sounds like a good guy.
try to get the girl fired
well i would have been curious but he kept talking about u sweetie so he likes u she just asked a favor and if nething else happens be on ur guard
Be happy that your boyfriend is a nice guy.
You should think that he's a nice guy for doing a favor for a coworker, and then forget about it. But keep your eye on that girl, she may be making a move for him!
Proud that he helped a damsel in distress and know that he's committed to you. He did her a favor and did seem annoyed about her, so I wouldn't worry about a thing.
Your boyfriend did everything right in this case.He even told you all about it.Your boyfriend is not cheating on you or thinking about doing so.Just tell him you think it was sweet that he helped this girl out.But tell him that if she tries to get him alone like that again he should ask someone else to come with to keep her from trying something.Its not that you dont trust him you just dont trust her.
can i smak you?
He was honest, if he had something to hide you would have found out about it from another source!
She seems scandalous so I would keep an eye on her. He seems alright like he was just being nice. But Trust your man and don't put any pressure on him or anything about her, bc that will drive him away and possibly to her but keep your eyes and ears open for anything fishy. But remember that if you love him you will trust him.
He did the right thing, and he told you even though it was tiny. Your reaction should have been damn pleased.
Sounds like he wanted nothing to do with her.... either that or hes lieing about what happened and wanted to make it sound like that on purpose... i wouldnt worry about ir unless he brings it up again
I think that it doesn't mean a thing. Your boyfriend just helped the girl who had a broken tail light. If you trust him enough, I don't think you'll be bothered about this. So, your reaction, you'll ask for some details at first, then you'll just nod when he tells you everything. You trust him right? I don't think that you'll get angry about this.
You should act appreciative that he did a nice deed for someone. Even if her motives were not entirely pure, he made a point of telling you how he talked about you the whole time. He's trying to demonstrate how he was completely faithful to you. He's a keeper.
If you're bothered by it, that's a sign of your insecurity, not any problem on his part.
By telling you that the girl asked him what he's doing later, you might interpret that as his trying to make you jealous or letting you know that other girls find him attractive. It's more likely him trying to be upfront with you about what happened so you don't hear it from someone else and think that he was not honest with you.
This is where guys fall into a trap and feel like they can't win for losing.
Pat him on the back and tell him what a nice guy he is for changing the light out for the poor girl and how happy you are that he was comfortable enough to tell you all the details. Tell him how you're much happier hearing it from him than from someone else.
So you're BF is a cool guy. What are you worried about?
